實(shí)用口語：不能對(duì)好朋友說的6句話

1.“Let me just check my cell phone”
　　“我看看電話”

Cell phones ruin many relationships and friendships. If you are always checking your phone, your friend may get the signal that he or she is not worth your time. Give your friend your full attention while you are together — switch off your phone!
　　電話能使感情破裂、友盡。如果你總是玩手機(jī)，你的朋友就會(huì)覺得他自己是在占用你的時(shí)間。給你的朋友足夠的注意，你們?cè)谝黄鸬臅r(shí)候---關(guān)掉電話。

2.“I can’t tell you – it’s private”
　　“我不能告訴你---這是個(gè)人隱私”

Telling your good friend this means that you do not trust them enough with confidential information. True friendship is about sharing our real selves and that will include private stuff. Start something confidential with “I know I can trust you with this.”
　　對(duì)朋友說這句話就說明你對(duì)他還不夠信任。真正的好朋友就是來分享我們的秘密的，當(dāng)然也包括我們的隱私。從說“我知道我能相信你”開始吧。

3.“I never have enough time”
　　“我時(shí)間不夠了”

In ancient times, friendship was such a high calling and a privilege that it was often more valued than marriage. Time is an essential ingredient in nurturing friendships. Telling a good friend you have not enough time is a real turn off. Try saying, “I’ll always have enough time for you.”
　　在古代，友誼是一種高于婚姻只有少數(shù)人才能擁有的。時(shí)間是維系友誼最基本的。對(duì)你的朋友說你沒有時(shí)間就是一種拒絕。試著說，“對(duì)你一直都有時(shí)間。”

4.“I am going to be late”
　　“我會(huì)遲到”

This shouldn’t sound like a chronic condition. A lack of punctuality can mean missed restaurant bookings or walking into a film that has already started. If you are unpunctual, it might be time to start getting more organized. You should say, “I really am going to get my unpunctuality under control.”
　　這聽起來不應(yīng)該是長(zhǎng)期問題。不準(zhǔn)時(shí)也就意味著要錯(cuò)過訂餐或者看電影。如果你不準(zhǔn)時(shí)，那就是該學(xué)著更有安排。你應(yīng)該說，“我真的會(huì)改改不準(zhǔn)時(shí)的毛病。”

5.“You could have asked me for advice or help”
　　“你本可以找我?guī)兔Φ?rdquo;

The truth is that good friends know when to be there and when to lend a shoulder to cry on. You should not need to be asked or told. You should say, “You know that I am always around, if you need help with anything.”
　　好朋友就知道到什么時(shí)候在你身邊，什么時(shí)候借個(gè)肩膀給你依靠。根本不必言說。你應(yīng)該說，“你知道的只要你需要幫助，我一直都在。”

6.“I told Y all about your problems”
　　“我把你的問題告訴了某某”

Gossip and betrayal will damage a friendship irrevocably. A true test of friendship is communicating fully with each other. You can rely on each other not to gossip and this adds a great sense of security and serenity to your friendship. With a good friend, “You can trust me, I won’t tell anyone else.”
　　八卦和背叛都會(huì)讓友誼陷入萬劫不復(fù)之地。經(jīng)過考驗(yàn)的友誼就是你們之間有足夠的交流。你們可以彼此依賴不互相八卦，這樣會(huì)給彼此一種安全感，祥和感。好朋友之間，“你可以相信我，我不會(huì)告訴別人。”

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